Hi there! I'm Cameron - also known as Coach Cam. Welcome!
I help married Christian men quit porn for good.
Believe it or not porn is NOT a harmless form of adult entertainment.
It’s a powerful, addictive drug that’s been shown in peer-reviewed research to… triple the chances of divorce ; directly damage sexual arousal, performance, and satisfaction ; fuel depression, anxiety and loneliness ; erode marital satisfaction ; and make lasting, negative changes to the brain .
I know what porn can do. I was addicted to it for 10 years.
The crippling guilt and shame, feeling immeasurable distance from God, watching my most important relationships slowly crumble in front of my face, being completely unable to form relationships with women, slowly losing my marriage and everything we hold dear.
It kicked my life to the curb before I knew what hit me.
By then, it was too late. My life and relationships had already slipped out of my hands. I hit rock bottom.
I fought for five long, arduous years before finally getting my feet underneath me.
I lost intimate relationships, friends, time at work, time with my family, memories with friends, and countless other opportunities along the way.
It was a painful
Along the way, I started talking to men about the problems its causing in their lives—divorce, affairs, bad sex, endless guilt and shame. I realized that this is a huge problem, and no one is doing anything to fix it.
I decided to do something about it.
I took my professional coach training and credential, my personal experience, and my knowledge about human behavior, happiness, and started a business helping men quit porn for good.
If you’re reading this, you probably feel a lot of shame and guilt about your struggle with porn.
I'm here to tell you that's normal.
But I'm also here to tell you: DO NOT WAIT until your life is in shambles before doing something about this.
DO NOT let your shame around this issue prevent you from taking action now.
So many men I've met have had to go through painful divorces, lose their jobs, have affairs, before they realize they need to make a change.
Take action. Now.
I have tried all the other programs - years of therapy, accountability partners, books, ministries, Facebook groups, online programs.
They don't work.
I also know because my clients come to me telling me they don't work.
They treat SYMPTOMS, not the root of the problem.
Instead, I created something that does work.
It's a step-wise, evidence-based process that consistently takes men addicted to porn, and transforms them into men of sexual integrity, eliminates guilt and shame, and sets them on the path of mastering their own sexual energies.
I run the process in exclusive, invitation-only coaching programs that is PROVEN to help men quit porn for good.
Want to take the next step?
I've been honored to work with some incredible men along the way - Here are a few of their stories!
In the beginning, I was very skeptical about working with Coach Cam because I have been through many programs before, most of which failed after a month. I’ve tried talking to my pastor, Covenant Eyes, getting rid of cable, multiple accountability partners to name a few.
But since working with Coach Cam, I have been porn free for almost 3 months. My relationship with my wife is much closer that it’s ever been. There’s no more guilt and shame—it’s completely gone. I have no more desire to look at porn, and it’s really incredible. I truly believe this system works. My thinking is different. I am not as tempted as I used to be. I am just amazed that there is something out there that works.
Coach Cam’s PACS Process and the exercises that I did were intense, but very helpful. Cam’s coaching style is challenging but encouraging. I highly recommend Coach Cam. He challenges you encourages you and guides you all along the way. Thank you so much, Coach!
-Bill Munsell, Employee at Action Heavy Haul
I honestly didn't have any reservations about starting with Coach Cam. From our first discovery call, my gut said to trust this guy and follow his lead in order to experience victory over a long-existing (40+ years) addiction. I found Coach Cam to be credible, well-trained, sincere, and dependable among many other positive qualities. He ALWAYS DOES exactly what he says he will do!
As a result of our coaching, I am more focused in all aspects of my life and the "weight" of a busy life is much lighter. I am more patient, loving, at-ease, positive, energetic, and full-of-life since January when I began working with Coach Cam. I have more self-control in all aspects of my life, but especially in the areas of temptation (which is normal) and triggers (which we all have) because Coach Cam has taught me how to recognize quickly the path I don't want to go down, face it head-on, and use tools and strategies he taught me.
As a 43-year addict, I have tried everything from willpower to counseling, all to no avail or success. The Porn Addiction Conquering System is different; its a thorough, deep dive into the reasons why I have this addiction. Understanding the psychology of addiction was a series of aha's throughout the 8 weeks of the P.A.C.S. program.. The 6-step process Coach Cam taught me when my activation sequence is triggered has made the biggest difference in my successful road to sexual purity and victory over this destructive habit.
I recommend Coach Cam with the highest praise I can give. He's authentic, truthful, tough but fair, patient, and sensitive. Also, an effective coach who knows how to pinpoint the right question at the right time...then he listens. Make no mistake, however, if you're not ready to be 100% honest with yourself and dedicated to the entire process, it won't just be difficult...it will not work. And then the anchor of pornography will continue to weigh you down, rendering you stuck in every dimension of your life.
About 10 days into the program, I realized that the work I was doing with Coach Cam is by far the MOST IMPORTANT work I have ever done in my life. You owe it to yourself, your family, friends, mental and physical health to make the investment that will yield the most valuable return-on-investment you could ever earn. The hard work is completely worth it!
Before we started working together, I was hesitant because I wasn’t sure what to expect. Cameron appeared to me that he had learned something through some difficulty (personal training, disciplined control, a life trial). I believed I could trust who he was.
I have learned some basic strategies in coping with difficult challenges. When I’m in the heat of temptation, Cameron taught me exactly what I need to do to escape—and it works beautifully! Like most all things, the answer isn't mild melting, it's a simple, "Just do it" attitude.
I really enjoyed Cameron’s wisdom. I saw in him a certain wisdom that is not incredibly common—much more rare than ordinary.
I would recommend Coach Cam. He's a guy who learned his stuff. His techniques can help control your desire that is less needed. The desire for sex is not bad, it's actually good. The desire for sex is what we were created with and God called it, "good!" Sexual desire must merely be focused properly. Sexual desire out of control leads to sexual slavery.
I highly recommend coaching to any man who wants to be strong in body, mind, and spiritually pure. His background in Catholicism probably helps. Even though I think Catholicism is bad theology for many reasons, I do think Catholics honed in on a mastery of control in the body through Jesus the Christ.
At first, I was unsure about the coaching process in general, and was skeptical of being completely raw and open with personal and professional growth.
As a result of my time with Cameron, my outlook on life as a whole has become much more introspective and reflective. I'm approaching challenges from a mindful place, knowing that I have the tools to succeed. The coaching tools have also allowed me to embrace my strengths and also recognize the shadow sides as opportunities for growth. Maintaining an essential balance across the areas of my life, coaching has help me bring drive and purpose to my vision in a meaningful and focused manner.
I thoroughly appreciated the flexibility and vast amount of knowledge and resources Coach Cam provided. The perspectives and accountability were instrumental in challenging me to face many fears and take on tasks head on! Working with Coach Cam is an incredibly energizing and motivating experience!
Thanks so much!! Your honest and genuine approach to life and coaching is incredible! Cheers!
The momentum and clarity I've received, after just 2-3 sessions, has been tremendous. Cameron truly listens and he asks the most relevant questions, in support of my goals. With his coaching, I've advanced in some key areas of my life – consistency (keeping commitments), resilience (quicker recovery from a "fall"), and overcoming my obstacles (like timidity). I recommend Coach Cameron to everyone seeking direction, understanding, and thought-exploration.
Before we started working together, the age gap between Cameron and I was my biggest hesitation - it was a bit of a leap of faith.
I love Cameron’s open style, laid back approach to the sessions, and the process that was used - these all added up to my ability to get inside my own thoughts and begin to sort out the vision. There was always an element of trust that made the experience more powerful.
He has a God-given talent to help people work through their priorities, to clarify their values and vision and to keep the process moving forward. I am confident that my time with Cam will improve and strengthen my ability to be of value in both my professional and personal life. There is a lot of noise in the world, the speed of change and the volatility that characterizes so much of our lives can absolutely create a barrier to performance and to living on purpose with intent. Cam helped me drive thorugh that barrier to pursue my goals with more focus and insight.
Thank you - not only from a personal perspective but for the great work you have done to help colleagues become their very best!
It's impossible to sum up my experience with Coach Cam in a few short words. He's provided me with tools. He's led me on productive journeys of self-inquiry. He's forced me to define specific actions to take, and then held me accountable by following up. He's supported me when I've fallen short. Most of all, though, he's prepared me to handle myself when life throws me a curveball...helping me develop muscle memory so the optimal response is simply a reflex as opposed to something requiring thought or concerted effort. Those synthesis moments, when everything magically comes together, are awesome!